Although many of the day-to-day tasks such as special feedings, looking out for signs of problems or complications, or administering medicines actually become like second nature and relatively “easy” over time, other issues within the realm of caring for our children are what cause us to doubt ourselves. One of these issues involves how to treat our children when it comes to addressing their illness. Whether your child is diagnosed with a CHD in infancy or later in childhood, you’ll have to explain to him or her things such as why they have a surgical scar, why they need to visit the doctor/hospital more frequently than some other children, why they must take medication every day, etc. Many parents think they can’t handle or shouldn’t address these issues; however, it is by addressing these issues and having these types of discussions with your child that makes your care for them even that much better.
Besides communicating with and educating your child, the main advice that numerous child psychologists and doctors will give regarding this issue is to encourage your child to become involved in their own care (when/if they are emotionally and physically able of course). This makes children feel much more confident and in control – children will most likely think, “Wow, if Mommy and Daddy trust me to take care of myself I must be doing great!” It’s a great tool to empower your child and yourself. Depending on the level of care your child requires, the doctor or other members of the medical team can give you specific instructions regarding how to incorporate your child in the caretaking process. And at the end of the day, involving your child in their own caregiving is the best way you as their parent can care for them as well.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Caring for and Empowering your Child
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Inspiration
Here's Teri's story, and an introduction to the wonderful things she's doing to spread awareness, create cohesion in the CHD community between the generations of survivors and to infuse others with hope, creativity and a passion for life.
Inspiring Hearts
by Teri Martin
If I had to pick a word that summed up my life's motivation, it would be inspiration. I was born with Hypoplastic Right Heart Syndrome PA/IVS with moderate TA. Being one of the oldest survivors of this complex disease, I never really knew many people with CHD growing up. So I focused on what inspired me to get through a lot of the hard times as a child and teenager. I could not go play on the playground when it was too cold or too hot, let alone try a sport. So I spent hours creating art and writing. Even as a kid, every time I was depressed I would bury myself into things that inspired me to be something more. My mother would probably say I had a very active imagination.
I left the conference inspired to help others. When I returned home I kept thinking that there wasn't any place where we could really share what we have been through. The ACHA message board is great, but was more geared to talking about medical issues which is a great thing, when you want advice, need to vent your frustrations, or just want a friend to listen to you.
While I was at the conference some mothers were there who had young children and they asked us so many questions. When I got home I would have daily emails from parents, and teenagers asking me a lot of the same questions I was asked at the conference. So, as 2009 approached, I drew from something I already loved to do and had been doing for a few years already; I started another blog.
So in January I took my favorite word inspiration and named my blog "Inspiring Hearts," Living with Congenital Heart Disease: These are Our Stories. I want this blog to be a place where adults with Congenital Heart Disease are able to give hope to future generation of survivors, but also inspire each other to live life even in the face of such challenges.
Thank you, Teri, for all you are doing for the CHD community, your peers and the generations of survivors to come. You are, truly, an inspiration!
Monday, January 26, 2009
It works better when you work together!
It’s hopeless.
We can’t do anything.
That is what parents of babies diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome (HLHS) were told not many years ago. The word Hypoplastic means “underdeveloped”, and that is exactly what has happened: the heart’s Left Ventricle is much too small to pump blood to the body. The hypoplasia extends much further than the Ventricle; the Aortic and Mitral valves are tiny (or nonexistent), and the Aorta itself is tiny. The child is alive only because of a Patent ductus arteriosus, a “built in” heart defect everyone is born with.
The Ductus Arteriosus is a small connection between the Pulmonary Artery and the Aorta that allows the heart to function while still in the womb. Once the child is born, the connection will close by itself, usually in less than two weeks. A connection that is “stuck open” — a Patent ductus arteriosus — is easily corrected. But in this case, when the ductus closes, blood flow drops and the child goes into shock.
HLHS was the defect the doctors had no answer for. Obviously, a surgical repair was the only option, but how? How do you fix a heart that is, for all intents and purposes, missing the left half? A heart transplant was an option, but rarely was an infant’s heart available, and there was almost no time to find one.
But in the early 1980’s the answer came. Rather than try to fix everything at once, make the repair in stages. Three operations, (known collectively as the Norwood Procedure) performed in sequence, allowed the child to survive. Certainly it was understood that this wasn’t a cure, but the child could live if he or she received lifelong medical care.
Fast forward to 2009. The first generation of HLHS survivors are now in their early to mid 20’s. And with no older survivors, no one has any idea what future health problems may affect them. Like Edmund Hillary climbing Everest, no one’s been here before, and no one has a clue what's ahead.
The CHD Blog and Adventures of a Funky Heart will both be in Washington, DC on February 10, 2009 to support the National Congenital Heart Coalition (NCHC) effort to create a national registry of patients with heart defects. The NCHC is made up of several different CHD organizations, working together for the first time. The American College of Cardiology, the Adult Congenital Heart Association, It's My Heart, the Congenital Heart Information Network, Mended Little Hearts, and the Children's Heart Foundation have all come together to work for this important cause. (The group information is taken from the cover of the informational packet that was mailed to attendees; there may have been more groups that have joined the effort since then!)
If data is gathered about those of us living with a Congenital Heart Defect right now, it could be analyzed and used to predict our future health care needs. It can also be used to make things a little easier for the next generation of CHD patients. As an example, I take 11 different medications. Yes that is a lot, but some CHD’ers take more, and some take less. If the knowledge gained from a national registry could eliminate one medication that each of us has to take, the savings would be phenomenal.
Much too often you read in your local newspaper about the child who needs surgery for a major heart defect (Infant Survives Heart Surgery, reads the title of the one and only article about me in the local Daily Planet) but what happens after that? Usually you don't see a follow up article in the local press. But Cardiac Kids grow up; we get jobs, pay our taxes, fall in love…
... In other words, we live our lives.
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Who We Are
We’re 1 out of every 120 people... there’s a new one of us every 14 minutes. We are both genders and we are all ages. A million of us are adults, and about 800,000 of us are children.
We’ve made it through surgeries, hospital stays, infections, Endocarditis, pacemakers, and Heaven know what else. We’ve given gallons of blood, one vial at a time. We’ve fought back against tremendous odds. We’ve been so sick that we’ve scared the world’s best doctors witless… and then amazed them even more when we recovered.
We aren’t related by blood but we are a family. We call ourselves the Cardiac Kids and Heart Warriors. We have an amazing inner strength, but we are terribly fragile at the same time. We know that most of us shouldn’t even be here and so we live every moment as if it is our last. We’ve celebrated our victories and we’ve mourned our losses. Our heroes include a Flying Tomato, a golfer, and a former movie star, because we are them and they are us. Our parents are Heart Dads and Heart Moms, and we consider those titles as Badges of Honor. They deserve it; they were the first ones to discover that a heart defect doesn’t just break one heart... it breaks three.
We work, we play, we pay our taxes and we live our lives. We’re in your community, in your church, in your school, in your office, and quite possibly in your home. We move a little slower, do some things a little differently, but we usually get along without causing a fuss.
We are people living with Congenital Heart Defects.
Monday, January 5, 2009
Second Opinions: It Never Hurts
My daughter Ava was born with DORV, D-TGV, PDA, large VSD, ASD and COA on 21 October 2006. In a nutshell, Ava had two surgeries at the ages of 2 and 12 months. Her final surgery took place on 27 April 2008. Although most of the cardiac pediatricians we had visited before were of the opinion that Ava's life could not be saved, the excellent pediatric cardiac surgeon Dr. Navabi Shirazi managed to thoroughly repair the main defects in a ten-hour surgery. Ava was discharged from the hospital after a ten-day stay.
Today Ava acts like any other child with no physical restrictions. She is a bundle of energy who loves running and playing football with her older friends. Parents of children with CHD should remember to ask for a second opinion before choosing a surgeon. Had we known about Dr. Navabi from the very beginning, Ava would have been treated by only one surgery.
I wish I could say that it's the only time I've heard of such a story, but it simply is not the case. Until we have a central registry of CHD cases and better reporting information for CHD cardiac care facilities, the need for second opinions will remain vital in your (or your loved one's) quality care. Many times, at diagnosis, we have little time to prepare. We may feel comfortable with the individual(s) who provide the diagnostic results and recommendations, and be lulled into a sense of comfort in working with them. But I urge patients and parents alike to be diligent - ask those tough questions, research the facility and its staff carefully and talk to fellow CHD survivors and families when you can - it can make a tremendous difference.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
No Drop in IQ Seen After Bypass
Monday, November 10, 2008
ACHA's Top 10 for Adults with CHD
Source: EmaxHealth, 11/8/08
Today, most children born with CHD have a good chance of living well into adulthood, thanks to research and innovation. However, the increasing adult CHD population poses a problem - many adult cardiologists are unfamiliar with the resulting heart anatomy and physiology that results from surgical repair. Adults with CHDs are encouraged to see specialists that are familiar and experienced with CHD. Check out Kansas City's Fox Affiliate for a recent health update and interview!
In an effort to assist cardiologists in their every day decisions for adults with CHD, the American College of Cardiology and the American Heart Association have jointly released a comprehensive set of practice guidelines. The guidelines—the first of their kind in the United States—appear in the December 2, 2008, issue of the Journal of the American College of Cardiology (JACC).
ACC/AHA 2008 Guidelines for the Management of Adults With Congenital Heart Disease include:- Given current surgical mortalities of less than 5%, in the next decade almost 1 in 150 young adults will have some form of congenital heart disease (CHD).
- There should be enhanced education of adult cardiovascular specialists and pediatric cardiologists in the pathophysiology and management of adult CHD (ACHD) patients.
- Practitioners are provided with logical well-conceived care plans for patients with simple (e.g., isolated small VSD), moderate (e.g., tetralogy of Fallot) and complex (e.g., cyanotic congenital heart defects) lesions.
- Consultation before pregnancy, including genetic counseling, so that both men and women with ACHD should have a thorough understanding of the risks of transmitting CHD to their offspring.
- ACHD patients should carry a complete medical “passport,” listing specifics of their past and current medical history and contact information for immediate access to data.
- A formal transition process should be used to help teenagers and young adults cross the bridge from their pediatric cardiologist to an adult cardiologist.
- ACHD patients must be informed of their potential risk for infective endocarditis and should be provided with the AHA wallet card with instructions for prophylaxis.
- Outreach and education programs should be organized to bring patients back into the healthcare system if they are no longer receiving appropriate care and follow-up.
- Health care should be coordinated by regional ACHD centers of excellence.
- Every ACHD should have a primary care physician
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Free Webcast on Complications of Adult CHD
“Under-recognized Complications of Adult Congenital Heart Disease”
Wednesday, November 5th
Oregon Health and Science University presents
“Ask the Experts” with Andrew Schorr at www.patientpower.info
Significant amounts of people are born with heart defects, many of them with congenital lesions. Because of new improvements in surgical and medical therapies, increasing numbers of these children are now patients in adulthood. Still, these patients remain vulnerable to dangers and complications of congenital heart disease. Join two Oregon Health and Science University experts, Dr. Craig Broberg and Dr. Joseph Weiss, as they unravel misconceptions and underline important factors for a disease that is often under-recognized. Both experts will help us understand long-term issues that commonly arise, the role of congenital heart disease in pregnancy, and heart rhythm disturbances. Tune in to hear a conversation with highly knowledgeable experts for a closer look into a condition many are living with.
WHO (FEATURED GUESTS):
Craig Broberg, M.D.: Pediatric Cardiologist, Oregon Health and Science University
Joseph Weiss, M.D, Ph.D.: Cardiologist, Oregon Health and Science University
Andrew Schorr: Host and leukemia survivor
WHEN: Wednesday, November 5th, 2008 from 6:00 pm – 6:30 pm Pacific
HOW TO PARTICIPATE: Listen at www.ohsuhealth.com/experts
ABOUT PATIENT POWER: Patient Power debuted in February 2005 and is a weekly show hosted by Andrew Schorr, eleven-year leukemia survivor, patient educator and patient advocate. The show features renowned medical experts on topics that include cancer, pain, diabetes, and heart specialists, as well as experts in clinical trials and top pharmacists. The show serves to bring patients together in a radio and Internet community to help navigate an often inhospitable healthcare system. Patient Power takes questions from callers and Internet listeners on topics such as how to find the right doctor, how to advocate for effectively, when to get a second opinion from a specialist, and how to evaluate one treatment option over another.
Monday, October 6, 2008
The Moral Obligation to Give Back
In the past year, the ACHA has recently joined with several other Congenital Heart Defect organizations to form the National Congenital Heart Coalition. Amy is actively involved in creating new legislation to bring much needed research and attention to CHD issues.
“I am 100% positive that in the long run we will have an integrated, high quality care system for all survivors,” Amy says in the interview. “Our really long term goal is to have a very unified system with research, a registry, a way to quantify outcomes, all the centers talking to each other, sharing information and building knowledge together...”.
Ms. Verstappen is determined to educate parents on the long-term needs of CHD patients. She tells Steve that she “...presented a pilot version of [a new brochure designed by ACHA specifically for parents] to a group of Heart Moms - all leaders of some of the advocacy groups for children - three of them told me that no one had ever told them that their child was going to need this level of care.” Amy goes on to describe some of the questions that parents of children with a heart defect should be asking.
I can tell you, as one of those moms who didn't know or understand the long term implications (I have a child with Transposition of the Greater Arteries who I was told was "fixed!"), that the information provided is valuable and too important not to take a moment to read.
I highly encourage you to take a minute and check out the latest entry at Adventures of a Funky Heart! Not only is it a great personal story of one of the movers and shakers of the CHD community, but it is also a great source of information for parents, teens and adults alike!
Friday, September 26, 2008
Online Discussion on Adult CHD to be held October 2
Next Thursday, October 2, 2008 at 12 noon (EST) Cleveland Clinic will host an online health chat on Adult Congenital Heart Disease.
During this chat, Dr. Richard Krasuski, Director of Adult Congenital Heart Disease Services and a staff cardiologist in the Section of Clinical Cardiology, Department of Cardiovascular Medicine at Cleveland Clinic Heart and Vascular Institute, explores the treatment options available for adults living with a congenital heart disease. More information on this chat can be found at http://www.clevelandclinic.
Dr. Krasuski's specialty interests include adult congenital heart disease including atrial septal defects, patent foramen ovale, ventricular septal defects, coarctation of the aorta, Ebstein anomaly, Eisenmenger syndrome, transposition of the great arteries, Tetralogy of Fallot and patent ductus arteriosus. He also specializes in pulmonary hypertension, mitral valve disease, cardiac catheterization, transesophageal echocardiography and mitral, aortic and pulmonic valvuloplasty.
Friday, September 5, 2008
Real CHD Survivors on Reality TV!
PHILADELPHIA – SEPTEMBER 04, 2008 – The Adult Congenital Heart Association (ACHA) announced today that congenital heart defect (CHD) survivor, Heather Magee, will be featured on the season finale of Lifetime Television’s hit series, “How To Look Good Naked,” airing September 9 at 10:00 PM EST.
Magee, a survivor of two childhood surgeries to correct a congenital heart defect that left her with only one working ventricle, the most recent of which was performed in October 2007, confronts her body image on the show in the wake of multiple scars, both physical from the incisions, and the mental impact of coping with a congenital heart defect as an adult.
“For almost twenty years I lived under a false sense of security that my heart condition was a childhood problem that was fixed long ago,” said Magee. “When I discovered four years ago that CHD is a lifelong struggle that requires ongoing care, it threw me for a tailspin. Not only did I suffer physically from my condition and the resulting corrective surgery, but mentally as well. I participated in ‘How To Look Good Naked’ both to raise my self esteem after a traumatic time in my life, and also to raise awareness among the millions of adults living with CHD that they must seek treatment for their condition if they aren’t already doing so.”
Approximately 1.8 million adults in the United States are living with congenital heart defects. Most, like Magee, underwent open-heart surgery as an infant or child, and drop out of special congenital heart care, as they believe themselves to be “fixed.” However, recent evidence shows that heart procedures performed on young children may weaken over time, leading to serious health complications as early as young adulthood.
Magee’s appearance on the season finale of “How To Look Good Naked” will do more than just increase awareness of congenital heart defects among the viewing audience, it will help raise the funds necessary to continue the ACHA’s mission. For the first time in the series’ history, the episode also served as a fundraiser. The show featured Magee and other adults living with CHD in a charity fashion show that raised $10,000, which will be divided between the ACHA and the Ahmanson/UCLA Adult Congenital Heart Disease Center (Ahmanson/UCLA ACHD Center), where Magee was treated for her condition.
More about the show can be found at Lifetime's website.
Adult Congenital Heart Association
215-849-1260
aespe@achaheart.org
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
The Tallest Kid in the Room
July 28, 2008 by Steve
They always have Highlights for Children. It’s a common staple of any Pediatrician’s office, but it never seemed that they made the magazine available for home delivery. I always wanted a subscription to Highlights, because I enjoyed all the puzzle pages. But that was then. Times have changed, and now I’d rather hae a subscription to a good baseball magazine. Most children aren’t that interested in baseball, so I need to bring my own.
I walk into the doctor’s office and I can feel the eyes boring into my back. I can’t see them, but I know that everyone is looking at me. When someone my age comes into a pediatrician’s office without a child, everyone stares. What’s he doing here? If they are wondering now, just wait until the nurse checks me in and tells me to have a seat.
Usually all of the adult chairs are occupied. It’s impolite to stand in the waiting room – there’s no rule against it, but I’ve never seen it done unless every seat is taken – so I sit in one of the children’s chairs. That’s an adventure unto itself. You sit down as you normally do, but you just keep going down until your bottom hits the chair with a bone jarring THUMP and your knees are level with your eyes. Now I look stupid, so I stretch out my legs. Not only am I blocking the walkway, but now I really look stupid, so I pull my legs back in. Hopefully this won’t be as bad as the time that I had pneumonia: my doctor admitted me to the hospital, and after a 4 hour wait in the ER I learned the only available bed was on the Children’s wing. It was a loooooooooong way from my rear end to the child sized toilet, and I was too far down to stand up! I literally had to roll off the seat and then get to my feet. But there was no room in the inn, you take what you can get, and beggars can’t be choosers.
Until I was 30 years old I saw my local pediatrician for non-emergencies. It works the same way for kids with heart problems. “Adult” Cardiologists can’t deal with us – they are trained to deal with heart attacks, clogged arteries, and all the problems that your heart develops as you age. They usually don’t have experience dealing with Congenital Heart Defects (CHD). A friend of mine – also a Cardiologist – once said that if you chose to specialize in Adult Cardiology, you received about two hours of training in CHDs. Basically just enough to know that they exist. So no matter our age, Cardiac Kids are still patients of a children’s doctor.
But now there’s a new specialty, known as an Adult Congenital Heart Defect doctor. Adult Congenital Defect care is not taught at any medical school (yet); many of the ACHD docs are really Pediatric Cardiologists. Since their patients stay with them practically all their life, these “children’s doctors” found themselves dealing with questions about work, pregnancy, dating, insurance… questions that Adult Cardiologists usually have to answer. And so the field of ACHD Cardiology was born.
You won’t find one on every corner, but ACHD care can be found. Usually, you’ll need to go to a major medical center. I live in rural South Carolina; the ACHD centers in the South include Duke University, Emory University, and the University of Alabama at Birmingham (UAB). Other major centers include The Mayo Clinic, Stanford, the Philadelphia Adult Congenital Heart Center and Children’s Hospital of Boston. There are other clinics, of course, but those are the ones that spring immediately to mind. And now, the waiting rooms have people who are more in my own age range.
I miss the visits to the Pediatric Cardiologist, though. While I’m sitting there trying to get comfortable, absorbing all the stares, the kids don’t pay a bit of attention to me. Kids are kids, they are usually congregated in the play area, getting along famously and having a great time. For once, they aren’t being left behind on the playground – everyone is moving at about the same pace.
The parents are the ones sitting there with the worried look on their face, with good reason. I always hope that one of the parents will speak to me, perhaps ask if my child is sick. If they do, I’ll tell them that no, I’m the one with the heart defect. My parents were in the same boat you were. I’m 41 now, and still going strong. And hopefully someone will come to believe that with good medical care and a little good fortune, their child will do well.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Long-term Care of CHDs
Sure, it's every pediatric cardiac surgeon's dream to tell a parent that a child is "fixed." It doesn't happen often. Some of the more severe defects require many surgeries, none of which are a "fix," but are aimed at extending the lifespan until a fix or alternative treatment can be found. But is it really fair for a surgeon to sugar-coat the truth? No, it isn't.
That's why I was upset when I found out that my daughter's defect is considered severe, requiring life-long care. I had entered into a world where TGA seemed like a minor defect. The truth was like a slap in the face that woke me up from my complacency.
The truth about Congenital Heart Defects is that many DO require life-long care and follow up - not with an adult cardiologist (that is often not specialized in CHD-care), but with a specialist in Adult Congenital Heart Defects. The Adult Congenital Heart Association is working to spread the message, as are many CHD specialists across the world.
For an example, check out today's (17 June) news article from KSPR News in Springfield, Missouri:
Heart Defects need medical attention through adulthood
By KSPR News (visit the link for video footage)
"What it's called is tetralogy of fallot. It's one of the most common occurring complex defects."
Kyra's heart had four abnormalities. The pulmonic valve was narrowed, and there was a hole in the septum, or wall between the right and left ventricles. Also, a main artery was in the wrong place. These issues caused her right ventricle to get thick because of all the extra pumping it had to do. At age 4, Kyra had surgery. She was considered cured.
"Then I started developing symptoms. Shortness of breath, electrical conduction problems, arrhythmias."
It turns out she needed another valve replacement. The repaired valve started to leak. Dr. Keith Oken says Kyra was a victim of a common misconception.
"Which is that she was cured with the surgery she had. That is rarely the case."
Kyra needs continuous, life-time care. But there are not many cardiologists trained to manage cases like hers. That's because until recently most people with congenital heart defects did not survive into adulthood. So to make sure Kyra stays healthy, she sees her regular doctor and experts at mayo clinic. Plus she's doing whatever she can to keep her heart strong...
Doctor Oken says people with adult congenital heart defects need to continue seeing their doctors... And to see a heart defect specialist.
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Social Security Benefits for Adults with CHD
Social Security Disability Benefits are paid for congenital heart disease. The Social Security Administration uses Listing 4.06 to evaluate symptomatic congenital heart disease. You show the results of specific medical testing and meet very stringent medical findings to qualify for listing.
More often than not, Social Security disability benefits for congenital heart disease will be awarded based on vocational criteria.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Growing up with a CHD: The good, the bad, and the…*interesting*
Part 1: First, the good news
I’m probably not very different from some of the younger parents who follow this blog. I’m a 31 year old living in Northeast Oklahoma with my husband of 6 years and our cat, Tawnya. We’re moving into our first house in about a month, and we’re looking forward to filling up our new bookshelves, setting up a whole-house wireless network, and starting a proper vegetable garden. I’m a librarian at a local university, and I spend my days keeping up with overdue notices, teaching information literacy classes, and helping our online students get the research help they need for their classes. I was born with Transposition of the Great Arteries, VSD, and PDA, all corrected by the time I was 18 months old. My husband Kevin is a software developer. We walk a few times a week (when we’re being good), and attempt to eat a reasonably healthy diet. We hang out with friends, spend too much time online, and could really stand to clean out the bedroom closet this weekend. All in all, we’re your typical middle class DINK couple, though perhaps a little geekier than most.Just in case you missed the point of this recitation of our nice little life in suburbia, let me make it clear: I lead a normal, happy, reasonably healthy life, and as far as I can tell, my life is pretty typical of adults with my defect (the symptom-free survival rate at 30 years post-correction is over 80%, and most of us had Mustards or Sennings instead of the new and improved arterial switch procedure). I’ve had no physical complications to speak of, and I’ve accomplished most of the modest physical goals I’ve set for myself. My CHD is merely one of a laundry list of things that are notable about my life. I’ve led a generally happy life (with a few bumps in the road I’ll hit in part two), I’ve graduated bachelor’s and master’s programs with excellent grades, I studied in Scotland during my sophomore year of college, and I’m the first TGA that I know of to climb (a very small chunk of) the Great Wall of China. The most important thing I want to share is that most of those things didn’t happen in spite of my defect—in a very real way they happened because of it. Let me explain with a brief list of the benefits of being born with a congenital heart defect.
1. Immortality? What immortality? 24 hours after my mustard procedure, I managed to disconnect myself from the ventilator, coded, spent the next month in a drug-induced coma, and was expected to wake up with major brain damage. At two years old it looked like I might be developing pulmonary hypertension. Pretty much every CHD kid I knew well before the age of 4 died of their heart defect—I believe I went to my first funeral when I was about 5. I never believed I was immortal or untouchable. That’s probably a big part of the reason I’ve never touched drugs or nicotine, drink no more than one or two cups of coffee a week, and consider a glass of wine with dinner a wild night on the town. (Well, that and I'm a nerd who grew up in the 80s…)
2. Carpe Diem: I don’t know my life expectancy. Some of the first patients to have surgically corrected heart defects are now in their 80s and the picture of health. Then again, there are people younger than me with my defect who are in heart failure and on disability. All those cheeseburgers I ate on the run in my dot-com days (and am still working off) could catch up with me tomorrow (or never). For that matter, I could get hit by a bus. I save as though I’m going to be one of the first TGA centenarians (which is the plan), but I don’t put off my dreams. If I find myself in a crappy job or relationship, I start working to get out of it. If I want to see the world I save up for a plane ticket and go. If I want the triple cheese decadence special, I eat it with very little guilt (this one’s a double-edged sword, though…) In a nutshell, everyone’s life is too short to put up with nonsense, but I can’t assume I’ll have as many “later”s as other people. And if I make it to that 100th birthday, I’ll have a LOT of cool stories to tell at my party.
3. Overachiever and proud of it: I play hard, and I work hard. I always have to have some sort of goal or project going, and while I’m no prodigy, I’ve accomplished a good bit in my first 30 years. I keep striving for the next accomplishment or the next refinement, which is a good thing in general but is another one of those double-edged swords. (again, see part two for the dark side of this) As a wee kid my cardiologist Dr. Razook told me that if I set my mind to it, I could accomplish anything. I was young/naïve enough to take him at his word, and for the most part he was right.
4. I don’t wait to tell people how I feel about them. Good or bad.
5. I feel an obligation to use my talents to leave the planet better off than I found it.
6. I don’t particularly care what other people think of my choices. I do a job most people would see as the height of boredom. I ignore people who tell me I need to watch some soap opera or “fix” some sartorial flaw of my husband’s. I march to my own drummer—in childhood because I didn’t know how to fit in as a bespectacled hyper-intelligent neurotic wimp, but later on because I didn’t particularly care to fit in. As I’ve gotten older, I’m more willing to wear the right outfit or schmooze with the right people to get to my goals, but the subterfuge is still only skin deep. And I don’t hide my brains for anyone.
To boil this thousand word description of the upside of TGA to its essence, I long ago realized that life was too short to put up with bullshit. I’m driven to make the most of my life, and I also care a lot about using my talents to help others improve their own lives. For the most part these are good things, and I wouldn’t change that for anything. However, that drive, and the drive of other adult CHD survivors that I know of, is powered by a decreasing but eternally present fuel of anxiety, perfectionism, survivor’s guilt, and by memories of the long-dead friends, acquaintances, and playdates that were no less deserving of the healthy, normal, and seemingly improbable life I enjoy today. Not only did I live while other children died, I live *because* other children died, and provided the knowledge needed to save the life of a chubby neurotic drama queen.
For better and worse, all of my life’s experiences have been marked by that essential truth. I don’t know whether that will be true for your child—but all I can do is share my experiences, good and bad, and hope that you can find some use for them in parenting your child. But remember—I still wouldn't change a thing.
Next week: The Bad.
Blog Note - Sarah is one of many people who I have befriended online from this blog. I hope you enjoy her perspective and experience as much as I do! Sarah has kindly agreed to provide a three-part series for LearnAboutCHD, and we can't wait for the next installment.
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Tuesday, April 1, 2008
New Techniques for Stenting in Adults with CHD
A pioneering paper was presented at last week’s Society of Interventioanl Radiology meeting, in Washington, DC by Dr John Moriarty, Specialist Registrar in Dublin’s Mater Hospital. The Mater is the only place in Ireland and one of a few places in Europe that places pulmonary valves in adult patients via stenting. This procedure, which is not yet licensed in the US, was examined with CT during Dr Moriarty’s presentation.
Moving beyond diagnosis and into therapy, interventional radiologists have new imaging techniques and new ways of getting into organs which, when combined, give an extremely powerful new tool that is changing the course of care for patients, in quality as well as quantity of life.
Posted in Research and Education on 29 March 2008Sunday, February 10, 2008
7 For 7: 7 CHD Stories

Today's 7 For 7, features just a few of the stories that have been shared with me by my newfound CHD friends, through this blog, or online. You will not stand up from reading this post without your heart feeling lighter!
Throughout my life, I've always worked to overcome shortness of breath, becoming tired, and all of the other symptoms that go along with this defect. I realize that I push myself further than anyone else pushes me.
Misty's Story. My CHD story begins on New Year’s Day, 2005 when I found out I was pregnant with my 3rd child. My pregnancy was pretty normal. All of my ultrasounds were fine and there was no cause for concern, so we thought. Sydney was born on August 24, 2005. Her APGAR scores were 9 and 9. Everything looked good until the pediatrician came in and checked her out and heard a murmur that was “slightly louder than what we like to hear” and called in a pediatric cardiologist, Dr. Albrecht. At 4:30 pm that afternoon, Dr. Albrecht came into my room with a nurse. I was there by myself taking a nap and waiting for my newest little girl to be able to come to my room and get to hold her. I’ll never forget what he said. “Your daughter has a problem with one of the valves in her heart and I have called a transport team from UVA Medical Center to come and pick her up and transport her there. She will have surgery tomorrow morning.” Sydney has Aortic Stenosis (AS). Dr. Albrecht advised me that her Aortic Valve was a bi-cuspid, instead of a tri-cuspid, valve and was barely functioning and letting very little blood out of the valve to the Aorta. After he went over everything, he sent the nurse to bring Sydney to my room so I could say my “hello’s and goodbye’s”. My husband called his parents to go pick up our other 2 children and bring them to the hospital to meet their new little sister before they took her an hour away to prepare her for the surgery the following morning.
The next morning my husband called to let me know that they were getting ready to take her back and that she had so many tubes and wires coming out of her that the only place that you could touch her was on her head. At that point, he started to break down, again, and I began falling apart, again. Two hours into her procedure, we received the news that everything went well, she had had two blood transfusions, and she was going to be ok.
When I was finally released from the hospital and able to go see my daughter two days after her birth, I found her in her little bed with an intubation tube and many tubes and wires attached to her. Since that day was my birthday, Steve’s parents brought our two older children up to the hospital to see their sister. I didn’t want them to see her with all of the tubes and wires, but someone brought them back before I could say anything. What was amazing was that when she heard them start talking, her heart rate stabilized, her respiratory rate normalized and her blood pressure returned to a normal state. It was incredible.
Today my daughter looks like a normal 23 month old, but she is not a normal little girl. There are things that she will have to go through that ‘normal kids’ won’t have to do. Besides the future surgery(ies) to open and eventually replace her aortic valve, she won’t be able to do some sports that she may want to do and she will, most likely, have to take medicine every day of her life. Her heart will never be normal.
Joshua's Story. Joshua is an active 4 year old. He was born in June of 2003 with hypoplastic left heart syndrome, a rare and fatal defect, unless treated. Basically, he was missing his left ventricle and his aorta was very narrow. Parents of children with this defect are given three options: they can take their child home to die, they can try for a heart transplant in hopes that a heart will become available soon enough, or their child can undergo three surgeries that will reroute the blood so that the child can survive. Jodi and Mark, Joshua's parents, opted for the surgeries.Joshua developed severe blood infections after his first surgery, but miraculously pulled through, and his parents were able to bring him home almost two months later. His second open-heart surgery took place when he was 5 ½ months old, and he went home five days afterwards. He had his third surgery, the Fontan, when he was three. This surgery was particularly hard on the family as they had had over two more years to learn to love Joshua, and they knew there was a possibility he might not come home. However, Joshua also made it through this surgery with a few post-surgery complications called pleural effusions. Though it kept him in the hospital longer than anticipated, Joshua did fully recover.
We do not know what is in Joshua's future. The doctors cannot "fix" his heart. We are hoping that Joshua will not need any other procedures for a long time. In the meantime, he has fun playing with his brothers and making his parents laugh. Every day with him is a blessing.
Today, Sharon is 23, and a marine wife. She leads a normal life with a daughter of her own, who has a clean bill of health. Two adults have told me in the last week that they had never met any one else with CHD. Sharon is one of them!
Christy D' s Story. My husband were excited when we found out I was pregnant with my second child. Then our world came crumbling down at our 21 week ultrasound; Steve and I were told our little baby girl had a severe and life threatening heart condition. Instead of joy, we were expecting, our hearts were filled with pain, fear and grief. The baby was diagnosed with Tricuspid Valve Atresia (TA)---meaning her tricuspid valve did not form. Without her tricuspid value, her blood was unable to flow into her right ventricle, enabling growth; meaning she has a 3-chambered heart.Sydney was born on December 4th, 2006 and had surgery 8 days later. Without this surgery, which has its own risks, she would not survive. The recovery was a roller coaster ride. Sydney developed seizures 1-2 days post-op, which is a risk to having open heart surgery. Her O2 sats, heart rates, and blood pressures were all over the place. She had so many tubes and lines in her, that the nurses had run out of places to put them. After many prayers and medical assistance, we got to take Sydney home just 3 weeks later, just in time for Christmas. What a great gift!!!
At 4 months of age, Sydney had her 2nd surgery. Just remembering Sydney going through surgery last time, made us sick with grief. We knew she was in the best hands, but there are never any guarantees when it comes to surgery. Thanks to all the Angels above, the 2nd surgery was a breeze compared to the first surgery. After the surgery, Sydney's life has improved in a dramatic way. At approximately 2 ½ years of age, Sydney will have her 3rd surgery, as long as everything continues to progress as planned.
Sydney, despite her medical problems, amazes me. She is full of love and life. She always has a smile, no matter what is going on. I thank God for her every day, and despite the fact it is hard being a “heart parent”, there is NEVER a day, or a moment, I would change it, if it meant not having Sydney in our lives.
Karen's Story. As I lay on the exam table and the ultra sound tech squeezes some warm gel on my expanding belly, I look over at my two daughters who are 4 and 7 and squeeze my husband’s hand. We are all eager to find out the sex of our newest addition to the family. With two girls already, we were eager to find out if Daddy will get a little boy. The baby is uncooperative. The tech is unable to tell the sex. Our excitement elevates. The tech steps out to get the doctor. Soon the doctor comes back. He looks at the screen for a long time. I start to get a sick feeling in my stomach. I squeeze my husband’s hand harder. The sweat is building between our tightly gripped hands. His panic is beginning to flow to me threw his hand as though our bodies were connected. The doctor speaks…. “This is not good. This is bad.” I truly feel like I am going to faint. I look over at my girls who have started to look at a Dr Seuss book and have forgotten about what we are there for. I think to myself that they understand “This is bad.” Get them out of here. I don’t want them to see me cry. Oh my God! Oh my God! The tech takes my daughters out of the room to the waiting room. The doctor tells us that the baby is missing part of its heart. Missing half it’s heart! What does this mean? Is the baby going to be able to live?We were sitting in the doctor’s office and the cardiologist began explaining everything. Our baby has Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. To this day, I don’t remember that doctor giving us much, if any, hope. But I don’t remember much from that conversation. The one thing I do remember was we were told to think about aborting the baby. After many tears and prayers we decided to continue with the pregnancy and do everything we could for our baby.
Jameson was born on October 13, 2006. When she was four (4) days old, she had her first open heart surgery. The next couple of months were extremely difficult. Jameson was stable but, by no means, was she a healthy new born. She struggled to eat and thrive. She had her second open-heart surgery at 4 1/2 months. The recovery was much quicker this time. The best part was she was crying, crying because she was hungry and wanted to eat! Her third, and hopefully final surgery will be in April.
Every month Jameson has grown stronger. She is one now and is such a wonderful baby. She sometimes gets winded when she is crawling or moving around but other than that, the scar that is hidden under her shirt is the only proof of what this little girl has been through.
Parents deserve to believe their child has a chance. Had we followed the doctor’s advice we would not have our beautiful “Little Champion.”
Christy H's Story. At 16 weeks pregnant we learned through an ultrasound that our daughter had lung issues. At 23 weeks, we were shocked and devastated to learn of her heart defects. Between the two, she was given a 5% chance of survival. Despite the odds, my daughter, Harlie, was born on September 25, 2006.
Harlie has a CHD called Congenitally Corrected TGA and three other heart defects that complicated matters and forced the surgeon to do a three operation “repair” to re-plumb her circulation. I have been told that her heart will last her about 30+ years and that after that we will be looking at a transplant.
In addition to her heart defects, Harlie also has Goldenhar Syndrome (an asymmetrical craniofacial syndrome). She has an underdeveloped jaw and missing bones, low forward set ears, with a dysmorphic left ear and no canal, many vertebral anomalies, left eye anomalies, misshapen skull, anoperineal fistula, and a lung malformation that required the removal of most of her right lung.
Harlie is now 16 months old and has just started to crawl. She has a 20-word vocabulary in sign language. She breathes through a tube in her throat, called a trach. She eats through a tube that was surgically placed in her stomach. She’s had seven surgeries and has spent over four months in hospitals and she’s just getting started.Despite all of this, Harlie is amazing! She’s smart and happy and we think that she’s quite cute. She has such an agreeable personality and just seems to go with the flow, whether she’s at home or in the hospital. We are very thankful that we have her.
Harlie's heart, lung, airway and feeding issues are pretty overwhelming. But I try to focus on what’s good and be thankful for those things. I try very hard not to think too much about her heart or her lungs. I see children running and playing everyday and wonder if Harlie will be able to do that. I try very hard not to think about what it will be like when she realizes that she looks different. Or the first time she comes home crying because someone made fun of her. We are a very vain society, and that will make parenting her much more challenging.
But worrying about all that is a waste of energy – energy I need to just get through each day. I do my best. I take very good care of her. I make all the necessary appointments with her 14+ doctors, I got numerous opinions until I found the right doctors with the right plans for her. I give her all her medications as prescribed. I’ve learned CPR and she wears an oxygen and heart rate monitor when she sleeps. But, in the end, despite all my efforts, I cannot control how her heart functions. I just hope that it beats like it’s supposed to and that it doesn’t stop. I hope that she never gets a plug in her trach that blocks her ability to breathe. I hope that she never pulls the trach out (again! – yes that was a close call). I hope I never have to call 911 again. I hope that she will know that her care was never too much for me and that she is worth whatever I have to do to keep her safe and sound. I hope that I can continue to be the strong mother I need to be for her. And I hope that she will know that she has made me the happiest mom on the planet.